Hey to all my readers! I am back for 2008 and getting ready to go for a short 4.5 mile run this morning - I expect to do it tonight again and get back on 2-a-day training, lose about 7 .lbs, and as you all know, I am out to win a
NYRR award in the Spring. Welcome back to Harlem 26.2 - I've learned I have readers from all over the world - and in case you've not been paying attention, Harlem 2008 is not the place you just might think it is - which is partially what this blog is all about - altering perceptions of Harlem. That cover of
Harlem World Magazine on the right is more of what Harlem '08 is all about.
Stylin' &
keepin' it
pushin' on a NYC level as hard as

any other neighborhood of Manhattan - why we even run in Harlem, Marathons - that's what I and many people in Harlem do. I try and promote and encourage everyone to run - for whatever reason my regular readers always note I tend to talk a lot about women runners - no agenda there - it's just that women tend to be the stronger, more enduring & athletic sex - plain and simple - it's true.....and to that end let me start of '08 by sharing an inspiring story out of the
Knoxville News (TN) by writer
Kristi L. Nelson about a place many of my readers have been - there below, the finish line of the New York City Marathon. Regardless of your level of runner, this is a story that is great for someone you know, a friend, a co-worker, a daughter, a brother, sister, or son, everyone out there knows someone who will have a great start to 2008 by reading this - please yourself and pass it along, thanks! In that photo below are 2 women, a mother and daughter,
Amira Harb, left, and her mother, Helen
Harb, right, cross the finish line at the
ING New York City Marathon Nov. 4. Kristi L. Nelson wrote, "after seeing
Amira, who now lives in New York, run the marathon in 2006, Helen, never a runner, became determined to finish it herself. It was seeing daughter
Amira cross the finish line of the
ING New York City Marathon in 2006 that inspired Helen
Harb, 53, to make her own run.
Harb — who at the 2006 race jogged alongside her daughter for the last four miles in heels while carrying a coat and purse — called just being at that marathon to cheer on her daughter “an amazing experience.” “She jokingly said, ‘Mom, you’
ve got to run it with me next year,’ ” said
Harb, executive director of the National Kidney Foundation of East Tennessee. “I said, ‘Yeah, right!’ ”
Harb, knowing she
couldn’t run fast enough to qualify for a slot in the race, on a lark put her name in a lottery for open spots. When she checked the marathon’s Web site in January, she got a shock. “I realized, ‘Oh, no! They drew my name! Now I really have to do this thing!’ ” she said. The problem?
Harb wasn’t a runner. She’d never run even a short race. And the marathon is 26.2 miles. Daughter
Amira, 33, had run during her college years for stress relief and took up running again recently with the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society’s Team in Training in memory of an uncle who died of cancer.
Amira lives in New York City, where she is director of leadership development for Campus Crusade for Christ. She was available for phone support but not as a running partner for her mom. So
Harb simply took off on her own, running in the mornings near her house. “In my simplistic mind, I thought, ‘Hey, if I can walk, I can run,’ ” she said. “Well, I
didn’t realize there’s more to running than just walking faster!” Things like stretching, drinking plenty of water, wearing appropriate clothing and foo
twear, and pacing oneself.
Harb found out the hard way how little she knew when she ended up with extremely painful shin splints. She went to see her family doctor. “I told him I was trying to run, trying to do a marathon,”
Harb said. “He said, ‘Why are you doing this, at your age?’ I said, ‘Well, why not at my age?’ He just kind of laughed at me. “Basically, when he said that, I figured I can do it, and I will do this!” Her doctor
wasn’t the only one wondering what was driving
Harb. Family members, friends and co-workers all asked questions. “Nobody really understood why she wanted to accomplish this and do it to excellence,” said
Amira, whom
Harb called her “most helpful critic and most ardent supporter.” “My mother
doesn’t do anything halfway.”
Harb ultimately found plenty of support: from husband Al, owner of
Harby’s Pizza, who rubbed her sore shins; son
Sharif, who lined her up for sessions with his friend Michael Moore, a personal trainer; her own mother and aunt, who went to New York to watch her run; and friends and co-workers, including kidney dialysis patients, who she said were “motivators” and “inspiration.”
Harb has been with the Kidney Foundation for 15 years, the last seven as director. During spring,
Harb started training with Moore, owner of Fitness Focus. Moore gave her instructions on proper running techniques, exercises to strengthen her core, and moral support: He ran or walked with her once a week. “Another problem I had was time — there’s just not enough hours in the day, when you’re working 50-60 hours a week, to train properly,”
Harb said. She settled into a routine. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, she trained in the morning, going into work late and working into the evening hours. Wednesday evenings, she did yoga. On Saturdays she trained with Moore, and Sundays and Mondays were for resting and recuperating. “There were many times I almost gave it up,”
Harb said. “I would cry because my shins were hurting me, or I would cry because it’s just emotionally draining” to train. She also missed husband Al’s pizza. “It was hard to stay away from that pizza!” she said, laughing. But she kept her sight on the goal. “I
didn’t want to not cross that finish line,”
Harb said. “I
didn’t care what my time was.” After 11 months of hard work,
Harb realized her goal at the Nov. 4, 2007, New York City Marathon, placing at No. 977 out of more than 3,900 runners in the 50-54 age group.
Amira took two hours longer than the previous year to finish so that she could cross the finish line

with her mother. Both were in tears. “I could have crawled across the finish line,”
Amira said. “Just to cross it with her meant everything to me.” When
Harb crossed the finish line, a volunteer hung a medal around her neck, hugged her, and told her, “Congratulations! You did it!” “I
couldn’t stop hugging her,”
Harb said. “I cried like a little baby.”
Amira said she was proud but not surprised that her determined mother accomplished what she’d set out to do. Throughout
Amira’s life, both of her parents have been role models “in every sense of the word,” she said. “I’
ve watched her do things all my life where she’s kind of going against the odds,”
Amira said. For all the joy the experience brought her,
Harb doesn’t plan to run another marathon. “I just wanted to prove that I could do it,” she said, “and I did do it. It’s something I can mark off my life to-do list and move on.” So what’s next? Maybe horseback riding, she said; “I love horses.” Or maybe something else. “There’s all kinds of challenges in this great big world,”
Harb said. [END]. Isn't that beautiful on so many levels? You gotta share that story with someone! This is exactly how I want to start '08 and Happy Birthday to that Harlem Runner above on the right - that's really what she looks like too - that's
SpaHa Runner and it's her Birthday! I hope you all have a great day and remember, nothing is impossible!